this whole #zeroisnotasize thing is REALLY pissing me off. that isn’t a healthy view of body image! i understand that it’s supposed to be positive but it comes off to me as something really spiteful and hateful. it makes me as angry as when people say “real women blah blah.” how about this: all women are real no matter what size they are. your size doesn’t make you more or less of a person or woman. yes, western ideas of beauty are nearly impossible for most women to achieve, but when you make statements that alienate any women for being the size they are be it size 20 or 0… that isn’t fair either. healthy body image is about acceptance and change, if you desire, within your limits. feeling like you need to lose some weight? go for it. happy being “overweight”? that works too! the only exception to both of those are diseases such as hypertension or any eating disorders which put your general well-being at risk. the most important thing though is remembering that all women are real!
ughuhgufh you know that feeling where you want someone SO BAD like not even in a sexual way like you just want to touch their skin and hug them and feel their warmth and smell their scent and feel how soft their hair is and look into their eyes and hear their voice and soak in their presence like it’s physically impossible to have them by your side but you need it so bad like you just want them to be yours you want them physically there for you
One of the best feelings is knowing that you’re wanted. Knowing that someone wants to talk to you, wants to know how you’re doing, wants to se you. Whether they pick up the phone to send you a quick text or stop by your house to catch up, someone or something reminded them of you specifically. It just feels really nice to know that you’ve been on someone’s mind and that they care enough to let you know that.